Becoming Ecosexual: Weathering Jealousy

The tribe is gathered to celebrate the changing of the seasons. Cool fall air hangs around our bodies with a crispness hinting at the approaching sub zero tipping point of Winter. Full frequency baselines pulse from the black hole speakers, shaking the blanket of air into warmth as the dancers move their branching limbs in mirrored rhythm to the shimmer of the stars above. I am the dance. Eyes closed, […]

And Here I Thought I Knew What Heartbreak Felt Like… Opening to a Space of Love

For the past week I feel like I have been carrying a mini pool of tears under my eyes, just waiting to bubble out were it not for my focused attention to withhold. Fighting back the tears until a single one escapes and rolls down my face. Barely holding them off until I get back home to my camper and feel safe to let them out. One thing I have […]

Heart Boldness: Finding Security in Uncertainty (sneak peak)

One of the last things I said before bed last night while Deiadora and I were smoking our dream blends was, “I wonder what is in the future for the internet?”. When I awoke this morning to no internet connection and no facebook home page to scroll down, I found myself immediately diving into other creative projects. It’s amazing what one can get done without the distraction of the internet. […]

Free Flowing Intimacy In Community

Click here to listen to a reading of this post or to download the mp3 It feels as though I have entered into a swirling vortex of vulnerable trust and transparency of transformation. The rate of awakening has quickened, the dreamers are helping each other. Avatars of the past may have gone entire lifetimes without being heard. Without a clear reflection to be seen. Snap into the present now and […]

New Paradigm Relationship: Watering His

  New Paradigm Relationship: Watering His   {This is part three of a three part, mirrored series on New Paradigm Relationship} Links for  – Part One: Seeding, Part Two: Rooting, Part Three: Watering Becoming aware of the dance between partners in the embodiment of a new paradigm relationship opens our senses to the gifts of interbeing found within intimacy. Humility is the lens with which we see the reflections of […]

New Paradigm Relationship: Rooting His

New Paradigm Relationship: Rooting His {This is part two of a three part, mirrored series on New Paradigm Relationship} Links for  – Part One: Seeding, Part Two: Rooting, Part Three: Watering Once we have seeded the awareness of a deeper connection with our intimate partners through the mutual sharing of truth, we have taken the first step in embodying the qualities of a new paradigm relationship. This type of relationship personifies the characteristics of […]

Radical Self-Acceptance

Radical Self-Acceptance   “The attitude of “heroism” is based upon the assumption that we are bad, impure, that we are not worthy, are not ready for spiritual understanding. We must reform ourselves, be different from what we are… We become vegetarians and we become this and that. There are so many things to become. We think our path is spiritual because it is literally against the flow of what we […]